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Failure forms your character more than success

By Becky McCray

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“I have had a LOT of failures and catastrophes in my life; schools I got kicked out of, a failed marriage, rejection in the art and academic world and physical disasters just to name a few.  If I had not had those ‘failures’ and not gained the resulting character I now have, I would not be able to take the successes I have had in a good, positive and mature way (which I attempt to do).
Our successes reveal the character we’ve built during our failures.”
Marty Coleman, the Napkin Dad

Part of our ongoing series on failure.

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Becky started Small Biz Survival in 2006 to share rural business and community building stories and ideas with other small town business people. She and her husband have a small cattle ranch and are lifelong entrepreneurs. Becky is an international speaker on small business and rural topics.

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September 21, 2011 Filed Under: failure, success

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  1. Ray says

    September 22, 2011 at 4:35 am

    Only the smart ones learn from their failures

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  2. Lily says

    September 22, 2011 at 6:06 pm

    I am almost at the point where I enjoy looking back on old “failures” – I would never be where I am today if it weren’t for them.

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  3. Tom Grenier says

    September 25, 2011 at 5:50 pm

    In the past I would usually cut my losses and not look back at failed projects, but recently I have been going back and looking at them for inspiration.

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  4. Becky McCray says

    September 25, 2011 at 6:04 pm

    After enough years, there are some failures I can look back on at least with pride for trying. Others are still too awful to look at. But hiding our failures, acting like they never happened, doesn’t gain us anything. Thanks for your insights, friends.

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  5. MissDazey says

    September 25, 2011 at 10:14 pm

    From my cabin on top of the hill, I can look down on many successes and failures, with a fair amount of “who cares” events. A trick I learned was to not dwell on bad times to the point of not going on.

    As I journey down the hill, I am counting on doing somethings wrong. It’s a good sign I’m alive.

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  6. Becky McCray says

    September 25, 2011 at 10:15 pm

    That is a terrific perspective, Miss Dazey. And not an easy one to come to.

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  7. daddybrain says

    September 28, 2011 at 2:19 pm

    Failure is actually a future success in disguise.

    Joey
    http://www.daddybrain.wordpress.com

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